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Boudoir Photoshoot

Boudoir shoot

Boudoir photography is increasingly becoming a more popular form of photography and expression among women looking for anything from a little confidence boost, to a full stepping outside their comfort zone. The word “boudoir” is a French term meaning, a woman’s bedroom or private room. The idea being that it is a sacred space where a woman can be herself, relax, feel comfortable, sensual, even playful. There is a notion of inherent mystery surrounding boudoir photography, and capturing what is usually considered a private moment behind closed doors.

The reasons for considering boudoir photography are varied. It can simply be a way for you to feel beautiful, confident, or capture a moment in time that you would like to preserve; perhaps a time in your life that you feel youthful and vivacious, or just the opposite—if you’re feeling down and need a confidence boost. The experience of boudoir photography can be a truly empowering experience.

A set of boudoir pictures can be an amazing gift to a spouse or partner, to mark an anniversary, wedding, or other life event. Perhaps as a way of celebrating your body before giving birth—or even after!

boudoir photo shoot
boudoir photo shoot

Plus Size Boudoir Photography

Confidence comes in all shapes and sizes—whether you are new to being in front of the camera, whether you are a seasoned model or an amateur, petite, or plus-sized—anyone is a candidate for boudoir photography.

If you’re just at the beginning of your journey, an easy way to find a photographer in your area is to simply do a Google search for “boudoir photography near me.” From there you can likely peruse their portfolio of work on their website and see if it matches your aesthetic. You can also look for reviews and testimonials to gauge what it may be like to work with a potential photographer. Once you’ve narrowed your search, it’s time to reach out with pointed questions about what you can expect from a boudoir photo shoot.

To begin with, start with the basics, such as how long a boudoir shoot will last and how much will it cost, how many boudoir photos you can expect to receive from the shoot and when, what kind of images and in what format (print, digital, in a portfolio, etc.). You can then inquire about what other services your photographer may offer; where will the shoot take place? Is the photographer willing to travel to your home, or will it take place at their studio? If your boudoir shoot takes place in a studio, will props be used? Does the photographer offer stylist services, such as hair, makeup, and wardrobe? If not, is that something that you will be handling yourself? Are outfit changes included?

Boudoir Photography NYC Photographer I
Boudoir Photography NYC Photographer I

A good photographer will welcome any questions you have

Keeping in mind that the most important aspect of a photographer/client relationship is that the client feels comfortable throughout. Once you have done your research and feel you have found a photographer that you “click” with you are halfway there. A good photographer will be welcoming and skilled at making you feel safe and putting you at ease during your shoot. They will be able to give clear instructions on how to pose, and which poses are most flattering.

It may be helpful to do a bit of research beforehand and choose some images of looks and poses that you would like to recreate. Think about what your goals are in terms of how you would like to come across? Cute, sassy, sexy, playful—all of the above?

Another consideration is to know your assets, and what parts of your body you would like to highlight. Perhaps you love your legs, but you’re insecure about your midsection. Besides discussing this with your photographer beforehand, who can suggest poses and ways to highlight certain parts and hide others, a good solution could also be to look for a flattering, corset-type outfit that will hide your midsection and elongate your legs.

Boudoir Photography NYC Photographer I
Boudoir Photography NYC Photographer I

Boudoir Photos

It is natural to feel timid the first time being in front of the camera, but as the shoot progresses it is often the case that you will loosen up and become more comfortable in time. As mentioned, the chemistry you have with your photographer will also play an important role. Ambiance in the form of lighting, props, music, and sometimes even a glass of bubbly may all help to put you in the mood and make you feel more at ease during your shoot.

Women often report that having an intimate, boudoir photo shoot can be a life changing experience. Besides being both empowering and liberating, it can also be addicting! If you’ve had a positive experience during your shoot you may likely come back again for a different occasion or life event.

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